It is important to understand that your Bengal does not know you. After arriving at your home, he is going to be apprehensive for the first three to seven days, until he gets to know you. In his mind, you have kidnapped him. You have taken your baby from its family, and all it has ever know. He does not understand why he is with your family. So be patient, and kind to him, to get him to accept you as his new family.
Keep your Bengal in a small area with not places to get under for the first five to ten days. Put down their water and dry food, as well have the litter box nearby. They will feel more secure in a small area with their things brought from their previous home. The Bengal has to bond with you, before it gets to know your home. This is very important! Do not let your Bengal loose in the house until they know you, and have accepted you as their new parent.
Go into their area and play with him. Interacting with your Bengal on a regular basis, talking to him(he needs to hear your voice), feeding him, will develop the bond with you and your home as well. Sit on the ground and play with him. Gradually, as you are playing, bring the toy on your lap so the Bengal can follow. Let the Bengal come to you, and get in your lap. He would sniff you over and over. Body odor is the other bonding feature that your Bengal will get to know you through. Do not force your Bengal, to come to you until he feels comfortable with you. Remember they are half Wild Asian Leopard. One of their defence feature they have is the White ocelli(spots) on the back of their ears. This is so a predator coming from behind, will not attack, because he will think it is their eyes looking at them.
Bengals like to be fed with a tongue depressor. This is a great way to get your Bengal to bond to you and your children. Feed him wet food with the tongue depressors in the afternoon, or anytime that you think they are hungry. The way to a Bengal’s heart is through food and play. Every day you need to play with them. Interactive toys are the stick toys. They love these toys and will jump and play as long as you have the time to play with them. Do not leave these toys down. They are for interactive play. Leave down the small toys, and catnip toys. These are quiet toys that they can play with alone. Do not leave down stick toys with wire or nylon string.
Ultimately, after a constant interaction, your Bengal will try to follow you as you leave the room. He may even cry after you close the door, to let him out. You can crack the door and observe what he does. Bengals have predatorial instincs, so they don’t barge in an unfamilliar territory. He will stay first at the door sniffing around for possible dangers. If you are around and he hears your voice, that will be a comfort for him. Eventually he will concquer your house step by step, room after room. Last thing for you to do is to let your Bengal know that you are the Master of the house, and adjust your pet behavior when necessary.